Hi my friend,
What’s the good word for today? Are you beginning to see the whispering of spring? We’ve been graced with an early start to the season; as if there was collective impatience to add new colors to the palate. The exuberance of spring delights me – eager pansies, intrepid daffodils, birds returning from their winter perches. And yet…
There is a somber aspect to my perspective. Bear with me – I’ll get to it. When my parents passed away, I was convinced that if I saw a cardinal in the branches of the trees in and around our house, that it was some kind of cosmic message, assuring me that they were ok. We lived in northern VA at the time. You can imagine how foolish I felt when I discovered that the cardinal is the state bird of Virginia. I felt silly for sure and somehow a little disappointed. Was it better to believe the comforting thought or better to be disabused of such thinking? It was better for me, I think, to have held on to the notion that somewhere, somehow they were still here. It became something to hold onto…
Andy and I are circling 70 this year. He is scoping it out a few months ahead of me, and if we’re lucky it will be nothing more than another trip around the sun with many more still to celebrate and enjoy. I have to admit that I’m not ready to be a venerable age, and there is something a little dissonant about the number itself. I’m not ready, even though it really doesn’t matter whether I am or not. I’m grateful to my toes and scared as well. To age gracefully sounds pretty trite even if it is a decent objective.
I guess, there’s a part of me that still dances with ridiculous enthusiasm, still uses my brush as a microphone (when my throat complies), walk with EarPods secure and music that inspires something akin to rhythm, and find the best jeans in the boys’ department at the Gap. I want to believe what I know is unlikely, yet serves as my first line of emotional defense when seventy looms in unsettling kaleidoscopic display.
“In any life, imagine one selected day struck out of it, and think how different its course would have been…of the long chain of iron or gold, of thorns or flowers, that would have bound you, but for the formation of the first link on one memorable day.” Charles Dickens
But for this moment or any following moment there is some invisible thread that connects us to our memories and our tomorrows. I can’t think of any cord – fragile though it may be – that doesn’t extend for longer than my imagination can conceive, perhaps with cardinals flying all around.
Thanks for stopping by, be well and be happy…