If your company’s fiscal year end coincides with the calendar, then bonuses have been distributed, your new salary confirmed and you have received your annual review. Assuming all were positive – way to go! Congratulations! Another great year has passed and you should be approaching 2012 highly motivated, ready to embrace the objectives that you established in concert with your supervisor. You’re going to rock this year, right? No? The reality is that an external motivator – like money – lasts about as long as two pay periods, or however… Read more You’re Only As Good As Your Last Show →
When I landed in DC, my first boss was an ‘interesting’ character. I use the adjective advisedly, in much the same way as ‘incredible’ or ‘unbelievable’. Shortly after I started working, she brought me a lovely Villeroy & Boch box for my desk. She told me it was a welcome gift. Given the environment in which I was working (HR Manager in a national law firm), I was struck by the thoughtful and gracious nature of the gesture. She was the least spontaneous person I had ever met.… Read more Me? The Terminator? →
If my parents were still alive, they would celebrate their 62nd wedding anniversary tomorrow. My sister and I would send gifts, make plans to see them soon and sing a Happy Anniversary song (don’t ask). I can almost hear my mom yelling “Jack, pick up the phone!” – no one would want to hear us repeat this ditty twice. I’d want to know what mom got from dad, because he was the most creative and generous gift-giver I’ve ever known. A couple of those surprises come to mind – the… Read more L-o-v-e, Not L-u-v →
For those of you unfamiliar with the verb ‘kvetching’, I think it’s best defined as bitching in whine. Though it’s a Yiddish word, it’s derivative is really irrelevant for we all do it. I would suggest that it’s yet another aspect of the human experience, but I honestly think other species kvetch too. Yesterday a flock of Canadian geese were heading who-knows-where, and clearly there were quite a few issues being addressed en route. They sounded pretty much like this: “Who died and put Louie in charge? Didn’t we all… Read more The Complaint Department →
How are babies born with such incredible cunning? Seriously, if they could talk, I would appreciate it if they would enlighten me. It really matters little what species it may be – there’s a huge scam going on and I think it needs some exposure. For reasons that I can only attribute to fantastic visits from the karma truck, I happen to have had the most beautiful babies in the world – probably in any other world too. I had to negotiate with the nurses to hold them (this was… Read more The Hidden Agenda Of Babies →
I love people of my gender. I love being a woman. I listen to the original cast album of “Smokey Joe’s Cafe” and belt out ‘I’m a Woman’ with pride of ownership (as a side note, I never liked Helen Reddy’s ‘I Am Woman’..what can I say? It’s a taste thing). I applaud our ability to balance conflicting priorities, the way we check in with each other when someone is having a tough time and how we ask good questions. I am constantly impressed with how hard we’re willing to… Read more Where Are All The Mentors? →
We were packing to fly home from Florida yesterday morning, when I heard a news item concerning pieces of an errant Soviet satellite expected to crash into the earth’s atmosphere later in the day. Of course, they didn’t know when or where – two of the more seminal bits of data I was taught were necessary when reporting factual information – just that it was coming. Well, wouldn’t it just be my luck. Some people fly back and forth from Fort Lauderdale all the time, playing on their iPads or… Read more Looking Backwards And Forwards – Briefly →
There are certain immutable truths I’ve learned about working with others. I also believe that everyone knows them, few people practice that which they know and none of these concepts reflect untapped genius on my part. It amazes me when I am consulting and/or speaking with people frustrated by their colleagues, supervisors, etc, that I am met with enthusiastic agreement and surprise. Not to shoot myself in the foot, but people shouldn’t be paying for this information – they know it already. Please don’t misunderstand, I appreciate and enjoy every… Read more No One Calls It Work For Nothing →
A Little Credit, Please.
I’d like to put in a good word for the baby boomers. Not too big of a surprise of course, boomers like to put in good words for themselves. It’s part of our gestalt. Over the years, I’ve spoken to many audiences about appreciating the benefits of multi-generational dynamics and let me tell you, we’re not getting a whole lot of love out there. We aren’t retiring soon enough, we love to work in teams as long as we’re the captains, we can talk a problem to death and never… Read more A Little Credit, Please →
I go to the gym now on a regular basis; I still look like an apple. My trainer says it takes patience and commitment (two qualities for which I can take little ownership) – after all, it took a lot of years to lose my waist and replace it with such amplitude. It is true that gravity is no longer my buddy – I’ve shrunk, I truly don’t know what the hell happened to my waist (but it would seem that it’s a developed a frighteningly close relationship with my… Read more Food For Thought →
Those Things That Remain.